My husbands brother-in-law,Joseph,an American real estate agent,came to China for a short visit to our city.To show hospitality at the welcoming dinner party,Mr.Sun,the host,entertained Joseph with Chinese wine,saying,"According to our custom,a brother-in-law coming to his wifes native country for the first time must drink three cups of wine."Joseph declined the offer by saying,"Thank you,but I cant drink even one drop." "Then our dinner wont be over without your drinking at least one cup,"insisted Mr. Sun. To this,Joseph responded,"The Korean War is over,Dont attack the Americans any more."